i'm reading Neil's book and i'm watching mystery infield videos on youtube and trying to implement them in action but the problem is that i fear the approach so much that i get to the point where i'll freeze and i won' t go in.
how can i get over this fear
3 second rule man go in with in 3 seconds before you talk your self out of it, start with smaller groups there less intimidating. Once you open a few sets and get yourself into a talkative state it gets a lot easier, and once you realize that rejection is no big deal it will also make it easier. Hope this helps
@Ryan yeah true, but thats the part where i'm struggling with, its either i will skip the 3 second rules by 3 mins or i will just starting walking towards the set and i get frustrated.
What is it that is causing your approach Anxiety, the only other advice I can give you is to book in a boot camp with Mystery, Beckster, or Colgate or another top pua because they can see you in field and help you in field, I had massive approach anxiety and did one with mystery and Beckster and it helped me out tones, I was massively afraid of rejection and once I learned it wasn’t a big deal I found it wasn’t bad to open groups, because there is always another set.
Even if you join one of the online boot camps you’ll get solid advice from a master pua, but generally if you follow the 3 second rule it will get easier, even the top pua’s get approach anxiety, you just have to push your self through it.